Keep a Positive Attitude: A Negative Attitude is Contagious, Don’t Catch It

There was a time when I thought things will most certainly go my way. But, I’ve learned the hard way that things don’t always work out the way you want them to.

First of all, not everyone supports your vision or the idea of yourself wanting to become a better version of yourself. It’s really up to you not to necessarily spend your energy convincing the naysayers, but to continue to be true to yourself.

Everyday I wake up and I call it first. “Today, I will be a great day!.” Most of the time I do have a great day, but sometimes, hum, life has a funny way of throwing you a couple of arrows. I usually take it in stride because I know who I am. But for some of us who are often targeted, I must say, keeping a smile on your face ain’t always easy.

So what do we do when the day doesn’t go our way. Do we go with the flow? Nope! We keep a positive attitude! Yes, I really believe it’s the only way to combat the negative energy that some people choose to throw our way. If you go the “other” route, you will suffer and your day will be ruined.

Now, do you want to take back the attitude you woke up with or continue your day enveloped with the negativity some souls possess? How are you supposed to get ahead in life. Really?

A negative attitude is contagious. I’ve caught it a couple of times, but as I continued to live my life in a positive direction, I realized that YOU possess the power not to be infected! The power to heal yourself from this awful disease resides in you.

When I first started singing, there was a time when I couldn’t get any studio time because “it is completely booked”, they’d say. How was I supposed to record my songs, I had such great ideas on the music and the way I wanted to sound. But, for the life of me, I couldn’t get someone to believe in me…

I’ve always had a full-time job and sometimes it’s hard to channel inspiration with so much going on at work. So, I would get inspired and get these ideas and want to reflect them in my songwriting and in the studio. My vision was to have a finished, successful product. I’ve always had my own goals and have kept a positive attitude all along.

But sometimes, I have to take breaks just to keep a positive attitude. I would have to get up the next morning and continue requesting and find alternative sources for studio time. And I did! Why? Because if I had a negative attitude, nothing would get done!

When something doesn’t go your way, don’t let a bad attitude get you down. You can get that joy given to you my the divine back. The idea is to tap into it. Always remind yourself that you are beautiful and break out the list of your accomplishments and goals. I am not saying everyone will support you, but support begins with you.

My acupuncturist says “it’s all energy, it doesn’t last long.” And you know what, it never does!!

Here’s a couple of tips to help you move forward:

--Assess the Situation. Take deep breaths, ground yourself

--Speak your mind, positively

--Think positive thoughts and let it go!! Remind yourself of your vision, goals, and aspirations

--YOU harness the power to turn negative energy into positive energy!

--Be true to yourself by realizing that a negative attitude is only temporary.

--Surround yourself with positive people

--Move forward!

Don’t let a bad attitude keep you from gaining momentum in life. You can do it!!


Flaco Coquito March 19, 2013 @03:13 pm
Love your thoughts, thank you for sharing, I can sure use this at times :) God bless you beautiful! xo
Thelma collado July 18, 2012 @04:04 am
Carmelina, , I want to thank you for your story. It really touched me and I am sure other people as well. You have given me hope that I can beat anything that comes my way. You are a strong and remarkable young woman. Beautiful on the outside. But more important the inside.. A positive attitude is everything.When you believe you can do something.You do it ,no matter how many times you fall, you must pick yourself up. And never ever give up. It is a great reward to say I beat this.! Love, like your video plays a big role in our life.If our mind is positive, our body will heal. And with the love and support from people like you.Who have suffer their own pain. It just makes it much easier. Thank you Carmelina Vargas and God Bless you ...... <3 <3
Eddie Rivera July 17, 2012 @08:38 pm
Thank you for your thoughts. You have a positive way of thinking . Im sure you give inspiration to the people who really are going through trying times right now.I believe in you and your original fun personality. Moving foward The Carmelina Way !

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